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How To Be A Good and Religious Girl

some steps to be a good girl...to be a respectable girl ...

Tina S
Tina S
Dec 29, 2009
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To be and stay a very good girl is really a hard task if all negative approaches are come from surrenders. If no-one admit with the same thoughts with someone then life is become really a burden.

But it should be done by a girl if she wants to be a good girl whatever will happen in her life.


1. Understand that all shall be well. God forgives minor sins for He is All-Understanding and All-Forgiving. Even if you feel that you are already too deep in sin to turn around and become the good person that you truly are.

2. Discover whence the influences causing you to turn your back on your religion come. Maybe you can trace back the cause to either family situations or friends that are leading you in the wrong path. Leave the friends. They will not be there on judgment day when you have to face Allah on your own. If it is because of family, it is a little more difficult. This is where the next steps will come in handy.

3. Learn more about own Religion... Know what you have to do and what you can't do. The Internet is a valuable source to search for Religious rules and regulations. All Religion has good words and proper regulations for life.

4. Dress modestly. This does not mean that you have to look ugly or not stylish. Just be modest. Wear longer shirts and avoid tank tops and shorts. Stay away from clothes that are too tight. Remember that it is obligatory to cover the whole body except the face and hands. This also helps you to change your whole outlook on what is acceptable and what is not.

5. Pray regularly in proper manner. Pray time to time in a day. Every religion gives people a clear law for praying. Every good girl should have to maintain these rules. To over the head at prayer time, not to showoff other people, pray silently etc are the basic rules for all Religion. After that, start making prayer a normal part of your day.

6. Be friendly. A good girl has her reasons you know! Be well-behaved, dedicated and very friendly. You have no reason to be bad so just be a good girl in your boundary.

7. Hang out with good friends; going with the theme you may want to make friends who share your mission of being a good Religious girl. If you are lucky enough, you might spot a good girl your age. Be sure to make friends with a good girl if you find one. You can tell her how you are trying to be a better, and she might be able to help!

8. Avoid negative influences, including old friends (as hard as it may be, the reward is well worth it) ... who may have had a bad influence or who bring out the negative characteristics in you. We all have the Devil in us, but it is our responsibility as good to fight these temptations and urges by increasing our faith and spirituality.

9. Forgive yourself for any sins you may have committed. You need to let go of past mistakes and work on improving the future. Whatever has happened is done. It is in the past and there is nothing you can do to change it or better it. The only thing you can do is forgive yourself or use those negative experiences as motivation to get better and do well.

10. Forgive others. If anyone did wrong with you and tried to harass you don’t be panic. Keep faith on God that one day he/she will realize their mistake. And if they will come to say sorry to you just forgive them. God always forgive us for our mistakes so should we.

11. Ask sorry for what you did wrongly. If you did wrong thing with some one but later if you realize that you was wrong then don’t feel any hesitate to say sorry for that.

12. Take it day by day. If you make it a priority in your mind that you want to strive to be the best  girl possible, you will achieve this goal without even realizing it! Every time you are about to do something, think: "Is this something good or religious?" If it isn't, don't do it! Simply remind yourself and be ready to stop yourself, just in case.


 
Author's note: Its too difficult to stay good in a totally negative environment. If anyone commit with sin but later she realize and tries to overcome then negative situations, influences create obstacles. May God help her..
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